Christmas week is always a little different when you are a missionary. It is slower because no one is home. And those that are home don't want to be bothered by missionaries. Basically only the members want to see us. But President Loveland encouraged us to make this week about service and to find service with those that may not be remembered this Christmas season. It was a great week.
On Tuesday we had a really cool experience. Sister Hill and I were planning to teach Robert and Penny about Tithing and Fast Offerings. We were prepared and ready to teach. As we were driving there, we both felt that we should scratch that plan and read from the Book of Mormon with them. We decided we would read from where they left off. We read a chapter with Robert and he had a lot of really great questions that were answered in the scriptures. As we read the chapter Penny had left off on, Sister Hill and I both looked at each other and couldn't stop smiling. It was all about the Law of the Tithe. It was such a blessing. We were able to teach Penny what we had originally planned, but in a different way. It was a really cool experience to have. It was cool to see that the Lord will help us teach in the best way possible if we turn to him and rely on the spirit to direct us. We told Penny about that experience and she was really touched by it. Then she took us to see the lights again.
Wednesday, we were able to have a lesson on family history with a less active man that we have been trying to see for months. We invited his home teacher and his wife. As Sister Hill was helping him with his family tree, Sister Rasmussen asked me to help her with indexing. She said that she had been having a really hard time with it and didn't know how to do it. She said she just gave up because she was frustrated. Luckily, that is about the only part of family history i am good at. It was a great lesson and we had a lot of time getting to know all of them better.
Thursday was Christmas Eve and it was nothing short of a good time. All the other elders and sisters from our zone came to Rolla and we went caroling. We stopped by a few members houses and also a few of the nursing homes here in Rolla. It was super cool. The old ladies loved it! They jammed out to the carols as we tried to sing them half way decent. One of the nursing homes wanted us to walk through the halls caroling. They said, "Dont go in hall 3. There isn't anyone down there." We were jamming out and singing at the top of our lungs. We weren't paying attention and then one of the elders realized that we were singing to absolutely no one at all. We turned around and went to a new hall and all the workers were laughing at us because we did exactly what they told us not to do. It was hilarious. It was a really great time. The funniest thing that happened was when we stopped by an older couple in our ward. We started caroling and knocked, No answer. So we knocked louder. No answer. By this time, the song was over and we were awkwardly standing on their porch laughing. As we walked away, they opened the door, so we all ran onto the porch again and started over. It was such a good time to spend my Christmas eve. That evening, we went to the Millers home, and what they call a "Bethlehem dinner." She makes a meal that they would have eaten at the time of Jesus' birth. We sat on the floor and read the Christmas Story. It was a really cool dinner.
Then the next day...CHRISTMAS! It was so much fun! We woke up and the Twyman girls were ready to go. They ripped all of their things open and played with all their toys. Sister Hill and I even got visited by Santa. It was great. We got some Candy and a few other little things. After the traditional morning was over, we went to our Ward Mission Leaders house and played a crazy game of Phase 10. They are such a hilarious family. It was super fun. After that, we went to a community dinner and helped them slice pie for over and hour and set up all the tables and chairs. It was a really cool experience for me. There was a ton of people there helping and giving of their time to help others in need. I know that it was a huge sacrifice for some people to take time away from their families to volunteer. It was a great way for me to keep the Savior in my thoughts. I had a great time. It was also a tender mercy. As we were volunteering, one of our potential investigators walked in. It was awesome to see the Lords hand in our live. We talked with her and invited her to church. She was very happy to see us. After that, we went back to the Nordwalds for another game of Phase 10. Then we finally came home and got to skype. It was so great to see and talk with all of you!!! I am grateful for the encouragement i received from everyone and all the updates and crazy news! Skype was definitely the greatest present from Christmas.
Saturday was really hard. It poured all day and everyone cancelled our appointments. Even our dinner cancelled. We did not want that to happen, so we called one of our investigators and basically invited ourselves to dinner. They were very happy to feed us. About 3 hours later, they called and cancelled too. It was super sad. They said, "Sorry girls, i don't know if it is the weather or what, something is going on in our house and we can't feed you." Then she texted us about an hour after that and said, "sorry we are wishy washy, we really want to have you for dinner. See you at 6." It was a HUGE blessing. We had a great time with them and a great lesson. Mike said he would be baptized. It was amazing to hear him say that. I don't know if i will be around for it, but he said he wanted us to come back and see him baptized if we weren't here. I know that the Lord is working hard on him right now. He is so open to learning and very open to the spirit. At dinner we found out that he is the one who told Brenna to tell us that we were going to come over. He didn't want to cancel, she did. It is so cool to see the progression he has made in the past few weeks.
This week i would say a huge way we saw the Lords hand is working with a less active/part member family. They have the desire to come to church and do what is right, but always find an excuse that stops that goal. Sister Hill and I were thinking of ways we could get them interested in Church and having a good experience so they could feel the spirit. Both of the teenage daughters love to sing and are in choir at school. Mary and Cheyanne. We decided to invite them to sing with us in sacrament meeting. Sister Hill and I aren't very confident in our singing abilities, but i know they are so excited to sing at church. Last night, we went for a lesson to read the Book of Mormon. It was so hectic in there. It was loud and all the other kids were singing. Then we suggested practicing the song. The house instantly got quiet and they were very focused. They said they felt a lot of peace and they felt good as we sang. Mary turned to me and said, "I will teach you how to sing and you can teach me the Book of Mormon." It was such a sweet moment. I am excited to have Mary help me. I know that the spirit is working on them and they are open to learning. It was a reallly cool moment.
This week was so great. Through all the things we experienced this week i learned a few things. I learned that diligent effective study of the scriptures can invite the spirit into your life so much. I felt so much peace this week as i studied the Savior. I know that God answers prayers through other people. On skype, someone said a tiny random thing, that answered a huge prayer for me. As i thought about the one little phrase that was said, i felt the spirit so strongly as i prayed that night and i slept better than i have in a long time. I know that the Lord was speaking to me in a way that i would recognize was an answer. It was a really great experience.
I hope you all had a perfect Christmas week.
Love you all!
Love,
Sister Ritter
pictures:
1) At the lights for the last time with Penny and Robert.
2)Santa came!!!!!
3) What a clever little note. (;
